A old friend of friend turned up, and told me about all the mistakes they just made, they wanted by advice do this is what I told them, I thought might just be relevant as everyone makes mistakes
We often just make mistakes, We do stupid things. This makes us human, it doesn’t make you a bad or a stupid person. Every person you meet on the street has done many dumb things most of them just as foolish, often more so. Most of them however never have the guts to face what have done they deny it to them self’s, even more don’t have the wisdom to recognise the mistakes they have made. You should be proud that you are not one of these people, and celebrate the fact you can learn from this and become and more powerful and complete person than they can ever aspire to be.
My advice to you is this, first forgive yourself, this is the hard part, but once you have you can begin to feel whole again. Go outside, don’t hide, face the sun and tell it you feel crap about everything but it’s over now, you’re going to sort things out. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re a worse person, no one has ever done something so stupid they are worth less as a human being.
Do what you can to sort things out, look at what you did and see if there is anything you can learn from it. Gather your friends around you, any that won’t come are not worth bothering with. Then put it all behind you and just Live….
Remember you heart may be broken, teardrops may fall, Love is painful, but friendship can help. I am your friend, I won’t promise to be your friend forever, because I won’t live that long. But let me be your friend as long as I live. If you ever think I have forgotten you are wrong, you are always in my thoughts, and there is always a place in my heart just waiting for you visit.
Your Loving friend…